15. Chose your fear wisely because it could cost you more in the long run 14. Correct yourself before someone else does. I was wrong. Repeat after me I was wrong. 13. A lot of people are miserable 12. Seeing the good in people can be overrated 11. People are full of shit Call … Continue reading 2019



Behindtheopendoor comes to you once again at the end of the year to share with you 15 lessons and realisations and an overview of the past year.  15. Understand how you want to present yourselfHow do you want to be seen by others? What are your morals and what do you stand for?. What comes … Continue reading 2018

Dear Mama

I now know you sacrificed a lot when you gave birth to me. I can't even imagine how emotionally drained you were at that point; just before we were about to meet for the first time.  I'm sorry it took me so long to realise. 27 years to be precise. It's funny mama because I … Continue reading Dear Mama


Behindtheopendoor would like to thank you for your continuous support. We would like to share some key lessons learnt in 2017, which deserve to be highlighted. 10 things that stood out in 2017 10 – The power of financial management Throughout life you hear people press on how important it is to save for a … Continue reading 2017

10 Years Of Fear

Dear 10 years of fear,  I am leaving you behind because this is the only thing you deserve. You’ve been very lonely, You’ve caused me pain, You’ve caused me financial strain, You’ve birthed insecurities, You’ve caused me emotional strain, You’ve been exhausting, You’ve been traumatising, You’ve been misleading, You’ve awakened bodily issues, You’ve caused me … Continue reading 10 Years Of Fear